You've Got This - Become The Man You're Meant To Be
About the Podcast
This podcast is for men who know they’re meant for more.
More clarity.
More direction.
More from themselves.
Because from the outside, life might look “successful”—career, relationships, achievements—but something still feels off. You’re not broken… but you’re not fully aligned either. And you know it.
Hosted by speaker, coach, and mentor Andy Nathan, this show explores what it really takes to live with integrity, purpose, and emotional strength.
Expect:
- Raw, honest conversations
- Stories of challenge, resilience, and transformation
- Practical tools for leading yourself and others
- And plenty of deep dives into masculine psychology (with a touch of nerdy passion)
We'll explore:
- Why so many high-performing men feel stuck, even when life “looks fine”
- What creates lasting change—not just temporary motivation
- How to stop sleepwalking through life and start living as The Architect
- How to raise your standards, take ownership, and lead with strength
Whether you're in the middle of a challenge or simply know you’re playing smaller than you should be—this podcast will meet you where you are and challenge you to become who you were meant to be.
About Andy
Andy Nathan is a speaker, writer, and transformational coach for high-achieving men ready to stop coasting and start leading.
He didn’t get into this work in his twenties. It took hitting 40, feeling stuck in a draining career, struggling with relationships, and wondering why life felt so off-track.
And for years, therapy didn’t help. It felt surface-level or frustrating. Andy assumed maybe he just wasn’t “built” for this kind of work.
(Spoiler: he was. Just not the kind of work that skipped the real stuff.)
After 25+ years in the corporate world—and over a decade in the wellbeing and transformation space—Andy now works with men ready to do the deeper work of identity shifts, emotional healing, self-mastery, and leadership.
His coaching, group program (The Man), and men’s wilderness retreats help men slow down, reconnect, and take back the wheel—so they can stop drifting and start living with clarity, strength, and purpose.
This work isn’t just about change.
It’s about remembering who you are. And figuring that out!
Work With Andy
- 1:1 Coaching
- The Man (Group Program)
- Retreats & Events
- Corporate & Team Development (Online & In Nature)
🔗 andynathan.co.uk | themanprogram.co.uk
📧 andy@andynathan.co.uk
You've Got This - Become The Man You're Meant To Be
The Nice Guy Trap: Why Playing Safe Is Killing Your Confidence, Career and Relationships
This podcast episode dives into why focusing on being a nice guy will sabotage your relationships and happiness.
If you ever feel like you give more than you get, you feel resentment or taken for granted, and you find that your relationships aren't fulfilling then you NEED to listen.
And if you avoid difficult conversations, prefer to keep the peace rather than get into conflict with someone - you NEED this.
Every man I've ever coached has needed this particular episode. Without exception.
Today we are talking about the male version of the people pleaser: The Nice Guy.
And up front full transparency, this podcast is adapted from a session in Week 3 of The Man, the six-month men’s training and mentorship program.
Tired of Being a Nice Guy? This Podcast Might Help
Here's what you'll learn:
- Are you a Nice Guy (people pleaser who seeks validation)?
- How Nice Guy behaviour hurts you and others.
- The key to becoming a more confident and attractive man.
- Practical steps to break free from the Nice Guy pattern.
Listen if you want to:
- Learn how to prioritize your own needs.
- Develop healthy masculinity.
- Build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Book a call to find out more about The Man program:
https://andynathanbooking.as.me/Iamthemandiscoverycall
Links:
Email the team - andy@andynathan.co.uk
IG - @andyjnathan & @themanprogram
www.andynathan.co.uk
www.manprogram.co.uk